Friday, December 02, 2011

wishing someone "Happy Bithday" really works...

I never thought it would be welcomed in such a way...wondering ? Hold on its nothing but the response i got today when i wished My friend a Happy Birthday this morning. He was sad ; the reason being that nobody called & wished him Happy Birthday till I rang him up @ 12 noon today. He just flew few miles in emotion in thanking me a lot & sounded happy to be wished & born today 30 yrs back. I remember the days when we first met in a private tuition in my hometown, he used to be among the active & participating guys in every activity people of his age will participate in but in recent years he has just made him underground & been quite submissive. After he joined a private Dental college in Salem,Kerala he has changed a lot. In due course of his dental course which was extended for couple of years following his back papers it might happen that his colleagues & people in his circle have moved on in their lives. This friend of mine has been a great support to me and people around him & that is why i have always been tying to keep in touch with him in dark days as well. Today after the 10 minutes call I could hear his loneliness and eagerness to be around people.Human heart just needs a consoling shoulder every time you are said "NO" in any circumstances.There are stronger people & weaker people who has extraordinary mental strength to handle different situations & things. But when continuously you are said no then your morale goes down & the self belief too starts stumbling. Its like food for the mind. When you feed your mind with positive thoughts which obviously come from affirmative happenings & people with positive energy & encouraging nature, the grey matter grows better & works better. Perhaps my friend has not been so lucky to have company of good people & good things. I feel pity for him & would have been happier to meet him. Anyway i made him little easy today & tried to bring back the demon smile on his face. A birthday without cheers is not bad & at least it should be a happy birthday & then only wishing someone "Happy Bithday" really works...

May the almighty lord bless him with all happiness today..

Happy Birthday Umesh.    

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