Tuesday, March 13, 2018

Social network is not only Social now, its personal and beyond 👍 👍

There has been much discussion on the use of social media and its effect on individual's health. But when there is more than a billion mobile connections in a society and easy and faster access to internet is available its tough to resist the usage of social media or internet among people. 

I have noticed not only the young generation but the older generation too is not very much away from the addiction. I have seen people were luring their parents and elders to use internet. Forget about elders, children too are not immune to these screens or addiction. May be its a touch screen mobile or a TV or a computer, babies are left with these screens for hours together. This brings the interactive human behaviour to a stall. Hence limiting the development of their brain.

May there be enormous futuristic technologies and the most advance technologies like the cloud, big data, Many one touch solutions in man's life the most exciting touch of love and affection cant be demeaned. I see emotions and responses in whatsaap status quotes and the same can be well judged by ones likes in facebook. And there are many other activities in ones social usage activities by analysing which one can ascertain the user's mental and emotional status. Social network is no more social rather its been a public platform to express your internal feeling and emotions. Earlier when people used to have conflicts they used fight it out and express it or surrender to it. But now where people face confrontations and where they find no acceptance or affirmation of their views they find social media an option to release their frustration. But these are in most cases backfires and should be avoided. And secondly these frustrated posts or status notes create the most weird confusions and leads to worst results too. Recently my friend got to for a weekend football match with me and he put it in his whatsaap status as "feeling excited, after a log time will play & feel relaxed", now think of all probable  weird guesses by people around. The responses were really nostalgic. 

Anyway there are positives and negatives in all aspects wherein one has to be cautious in choosing between good and bad choices.

Loka Samasta Sukheena Bhavantu...(my whatsapp status means may everyone be happy)👍 

Wednesday, March 07, 2018

दिल का चैन तो बस तुझसे है ...

More than 8 years have passed when I first met her. I was in Delhi and She was in Chennai. Its an arranged session wherein I met her for the first time and decided the way forward. It was a pre-determined visit as we had already talked to each other over phone. I remember her coming to the first room where I along with other members were sitting. She came with the head scarf and after that the one on one meeting in the second room. From the day one I have told myself that she is better half and she always will remain the same. Its love which unites hearts and I feel no difference when I think of her other than talking to myself. Years have passed I have remained the same I used to be but situations may vary and reactions too may vary. I am ready and will always be at the receiving end whatever comes back to me. I Love her more than I love myself and would continue to do so till I am alive. 

यूँ तो बहत है जमाने मैं  हमगुजर मगर 
दिल का चैन तो बस तुझसे है ... 

Its her birthday on 31st March and wish her Happy birthday.

Love you.

Wednesday, February 28, 2018

Medicines for the body, Mind is unattended.

This week started with a low note wherein health had a concern...

Medicines for the body, mind is unattended. 

Changes in lifestyle is the new demand your body asks but the change brings a change which is unsettling many habits and practices. Anyway its enough of  many habits wherein there is no booze, smoke and sedatives, need for going out and getting a fresh habit is what i am looking at.

On an official note its really a positive turn. 
Attended two webinars enriched with knowledge on leveraging Human Capital and understanding the importance of making a candidate delight for a better candidate experience.  Both  the aspects are different where the first talks about the skill and attitude of leadership the other talks about the extra mile effort by corporate players to attract the high demand talent market. 

With the fast changing environment wherein leading a team of educated & talented individuals and get the desired output in time is a concern a progressive leadership attitude equipped with knowledge and tools to handle complex business models is the demand of time.

Other topic wherein there are tools and platforms available to reach the high end talent, talent himself is the chooser. Hence companies now thing the reverse way and make policies accordingly so that talent itself prefers to work for them. Now companies think of the candidate delight instead of candidate experience not only in the interview selections but also in rejections and their feedback too.

Anyway with Indian Super League (ISL) reaching the final stage, I need to really look for alternatives. Arnab is not interesting these days and neither other news channels. Anyway will keep hunting... 

With Holi in the weekend wish you all "happy and colourful Holi".

Signing off 

Thursday, January 04, 2018

Its Shambhoo's First Day in Pre-School

Its in golden words now. 
Starting today (3rd jan 2018) my baby went to Pre-school and by gods grace its a golden day for me. We all were excited and Dugli too was excited to explore the new venture called school. Moti had done all pre requisites for the day i.e buying all essentials for him including school bag, water bottle and tiffin box. I did a puja and prayers for his first step in school and he too by gods grace enjoyed the day thoroughly. To my surprise he came out as an extra ordinary talent as he tried his hands in Painting. He painted within the borders indicating that he understands the concept very well. 

Take a look

Where babies pour colour outside the area he has chosen within the boundaries and specifies where to paint and where not. Its a golden start and thank you god for this. May he blossom like a lotus, bless him. 

Shmbhoo on his first day in Pre-School.

Wednesday, January 03, 2018

Happy New Year Wishes...

Its over and gone.... 
I am talking about 2017.

A year full of emergencies and opportunities. 
2017 started with positives and amid health worries it ended with good memories. 

A year with many fortunes brought worries as we were heading to replace Baba's Pacemaker. it was really  tough task as we were playing sole without any support. I remember the way the it was first placed. When the mental trauma of not having the monetary support, matured us mentally a lot at the same time it made it clear of the Pandavs and Kaurava. We understood clearly who is with us and who is in front of us. Well keeping this in mind we had the support of the medical Insurance which gave me confidence to look for the next step of narrowing a doctor and hospital for the replacement. I would thank god for the courage and guidance which made me shortlist two hospitals: madras medical mission and Apollo Hospitals. But looking at the cost factor I had to choose MMM and I was not disappointed of the treatment we got for the money. The entire process was smooth and without much noise and it was done successfully. Best thing was Baba liked the doctor and the Hospital very much. And with the insurance support the finances too were well managed. Thank God for everything. 

Prior to this my Father-in-law too had a sudden Blood clot in his brain and had to rush him for a surgery. But the timely call for surgery and follow up meets zeroed all worries. But it was a quite expensive call for us as we had to shell out a big savings. Well he has applied for a mediclaim but what is approved will be pure gift for us then. Lets hope for the best.

Amid all these worrisome happenings we had the opportunity to visit the US in mid of 2017. It was a maiden international flight schedule for Dugli & Moti. By God's grace It all went as planned. We three went Oregon and it took us 2-3 Months there to settle. With Moti's project demanded her attention my job called me back in India which I followed back. With another medical emergency where this time my mother had to undergo a Gall stone Removal which led to Removal of her Gall Bladder. It was then a hectic call to make. This time MMM supported well for checking Baba's pacemaker. But it was disappointing for her surgery. Then neighbourhood Akka referred us to RG Stone where the surgery was done after close to 20 days. Here again the insurance was there for our rescue. A good sum of claim and her successful surgery made it s good closure

It was pleasant call when Dugli had his 3rd Bday celebrations there in the US amid joy and happiness I bid farewell to 2017.

This year 2018 going to be my year indeed as I have planned a bit for this, lets wait and watch how it executes...

Wish you all a very happy and happening new year.
Stay Blessed.

Thursday, December 28, 2017


Aahe Nilaa Shailo....

Who is he and why is he called Bhakta Salbeg.
In days where there was Mughal invasion of the holy land of Puri, Odisha there was a Muslim Soldier called Salbeg. At the end of one day he returned home severely wounded. His mother being a Hindu Brahmin advised him to pray to Lord Krishna and suddenly and miraculously his wounds were healed and to his surprise he felt relaxed. 

Impressed with this incident he was attracted to Hinduism and enquired more about this. His mother guided him the ways of life and then he turned to be a devotee of Lord krishna. He came to know Lord Jagannath is the incarnation of Krishna and then wanted to his darshan in Srimandir. But Srimandir being the a place of hindu worship where non hindus are not allowed entry he was barred from entering the temple. Devasted by this he cried a lot and the barefoot walked towards Vrindavan where he lived for a year. During his stay there in Vridavan he used to write and sing Bhajans in praise of Lord Krishna and so on.

A year later he got to know about the fact that in Rathyatra the lord of Puri Comes out of the temple itself and goes to his aunty's house for 9 days. And during these days anyone can see and meet Jagannath. With this hope Salbeg travelled back to Puri to see his Bhagwan but he know that he wont be make it to Rathyatra, on his way back he prayed to Lord to wait for him till he reaches Bada danda. Its witnessed that on the return journet to Srimandir, Nandighosha (Chariot Of Lord Jagannath) dint move forward and said to be waiting for Salbeg. late in the afternoon when Salbeg reached Bada dand and saw his lord on Nandighosh then only the chariot moved. What a relation between Bhakta and Bhagawan ... for those who believe he is there and for those who don't he is not.

One whose ancestors invaded states destroying thousands of place of worship in other religion and practice, the Lord does not differentiate and showers his blessing on those who do bhakti to him...

Below written one is probably the best bhajan by Salbeg ....

Aahe Nila Shaila Prabal matta Varan
mo aarata nalinee bana ku kara dalana!
Gajaraja chinta kala thai ghora jalena,
Chakra peshi nakra nashi, uddhrile aapana!
Ghorabane mrugini ku padithila kashana,
Kede bada beepatti ru kariaccha tarana.
Kurusabha tale suni Draupadi ra janana,
Koti bastra dei hele lajja kala barana!
Ravana ra bhai Bivishana gala saran,
Saran sambhali tanku, Lanke kala raajana.
Prahlada pita se je bada dushta daruna,
Stambha ru bahari taku bidarila takhana.
Kahe Salabega hina jaati re mu jabana,
Sriranga charan tale karuachhi janana. 

     Jai Jagannath.

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