Life gives a power packed punch every time I try to learn a bit about it and yes. Again it happened... I just take a shot from life and analyse and understand how it is...but the more i think, uglier results confuse me. Relationships particularly has kept me always way far from understanding myself.

its Always better to give it in full swing without any hope and it comes clean, things will work. Always focus on giving it all in the first shot further it always works...

समझने समझाने को फुर्सत कहाँ है अब,

आ ज़िन्दगी एक दुसरे से पंगे तो लें। 

तुझसे हारना  ए ज़िन्दगी सिखा ना हमने कभी

हारके भी जीतने की हुनर सीखा हमने अभी अभी

Phir ek baar use akela chod dia...

Rooh mera kabra ka rasta poochne se raha ke logon ne kafan bhi odh dia,

Kasam mohabbat ki dilayee use, phir ek baar use akela chod dia...

Indian Super League

Indian Super League - National Anthem Played...

मैं खुशमिज़ाज ...

यूँ तो मैं खुशमिज़ाज, टेंशन से कोशो दूर हूँ मगर,

रूबरू मुझसे जो होता कोई, जाने किस सोच मैं खो जाता .. 

इरादों में जंग ...

किसमें है ताकत जो मिटा सकें हमें 

जंग तो तलवारों मैं लगती है इरादों में नहीं

Addressing your team member as Boss..he can really be your boss in different moods.

With changing protocols in corporate communication and employee - employer relationship, there is a tilt towards a bit awkward personal communication. With people preferring to be called by their name rather than the official designation or by commonly used "Sir", it opens an un-official social arena wherein people find their comfortable and easy pronouncing and even taunting names.But is it a healthy way to address a colleague or a sub-ordinate ? But still there are people who like to be addressed as per their designation or by name or by the usual denomination "sir". I would say lets stick to the grass root names as per designation which in every way refers the respect and authority and accountability. for example let me address this by giving an example which happened around me. 

There was a manager who was little casual in approach  and his tone and words were little taunting towards his sub ordinates. In a usual meeting he fired him a question with addressing this dear sub-ordinate as "Boss" and then he added the usual query and to my head tun the next moment the employee heard replying as "Sir, pls understand that I am not your boss nor you are mine, I am an employee who has equal rights as you have and with due respect I am liable to answer all your query within the organisational policies and nothing beyond that. your addressing me as boss in front of my colleagues is a kind of taunting towards my employee rights which I can not accept." Hearing this from his manager just felt a little sorry for his words and wanted the employee to take it lightly and moved on.

Hence we don't know who thinks in which way... so its always better to address the designation properly.

Living a life, larger than it should not be

I got on the machine and put a coin in the feeder and the display flashed as 74.6...I told myself this guy called gravity is getting weight and need to get off it. You wont believe man...I was between 50-60 to the best of my knowledge 2 yrs back but the tightening of my pants which gradually went up to 32 from 30. I could realize the tyres by my side but was defiant to accept that I have weight. it was quiet embarrassing in front of few less weighty people who noticed the number on screen. I turned around to said to myself " M living life, larger than it should not be" and moved on....